From The Catholic Youth’s Guide to Life and Love, Fr. George Kelly
Many uncivilized tribes consider the time when a male reaches adolescence as one of the most important occasions of his life. They put him through many tests and force him to endure intense pain to prove that he’s got the qualities he’ll need to be a man.
When he passes these tests, he steps into young manhood. And all other members of the tribe clearly understand that he deserves new privileges and responsibilities in keeping with his new station.
These tribes probably never heard the word “teenager.” But in some respects they’re smarter than we are. They recognize a basic point about growing up that we, with all our learning and culture, often overlook. And this point is that a boy and girl entering the teens are entering what could be the most important stage of their lifetime – a time when they’ll stride toward their complete independence as a young man and woman, mature and grown-up.
This ceremony helps the young tribesmen to understand just what’s expected of them, and what they have a right to expect, in the years of their development that lie ahead. No book is needed to guide them. Even if a book were written, most of them wouldn’t be able to read it.
Because we don’t have such elaborate rites for adolescents, and because today’s teenagers often are bewildered about what’s expected of them next, a book is highly necessary.
It is important to understand the attitudes you should have in this stage of your life – the privileges, responsibilities, opportunities and challenges, opening up to you.
As a teenager, you’ll experience vast physical, emotional and intellectual changes which will affect your relationships with all about you. These changes result from one simple fact: you’re stepping from the snug security of childhood to the freedom and independence of adulthood.
Where Are You Going?
Before you can make any real decisions about the kind of adult you want to be and the kind of life you want to lead, you obviously must understand why you were born in the first place.
If you don’t know, you’d be like a man who awoke one morning and found himself on a strange planet about which he knew nothing. He might be amused or interested by this sight or that, but he’d miss the entire meaning of what he saw and he’d be unable to find any significance in his entire journey.
Fortunately, you can know why you’re here. You are here because God put you here. As God’s handiwork you reflect Him, His planning, and His Glory. You are expected to pay homage to your heavenly Father and to use your talents well.
This is no lasting city, you know, for even the young have seen death. But if you complete your earthly mission successfully, you will be given a home with God forever.
Therefore, as you look to your future, keep this goal always before you.
What does it profit you if you attain worldly success, wealth, or pleasure, and at the end of your life find to your dismay that you have not lived as God wanted you to?
The eternal displeasure of God is a terrifying thought for anyone tempted to forget that God has definite ideas of how you shall spend your life.
Soon you’ll have to answer hundreds of other questions concerning your life – questions about your future, your vocation, the conduct of your business affairs, about marriage and parenthood.
If you’re like the rest of us, you won’t know the best answers at once. But if you make sure that your answers to all these little questions will match the right answer to the big question – if you constantly ask whether this act you’re considering, this goal you’re seeking, will help you save your soul – you’ll have a standard to guide you. No matter what’s happening around you, you’ll be secure; you’ll have something sturdy and unyielding to cling to.
You can find your security in the teaching of the Church. She has the answer to any and all specific problems regarding your relationship with Almighty God.
You needn’t – in fact, you must not – depend entirely upon yourself to make sure that you’re serving God in this world in the way He wants. By following the teaching of the Church, however, you can always know that you’re on the right path.
Wire Wrapped Rosaries!
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Wire wrapping is one of the oldest techniques for making jewelry or rosaries by hand.
In wire wrapping, rosaries are made using jewelry wire to make components.
Wire components are then connected to one another using hand techniques with no soldering or heating of the wire.
Frequently, in this approach, a wire is bent into a loop or other decorative shape and then the wire is wrapped around itself to finish the wire component making that loop or decorative shape permanent.
Because of this technique for wrapping wire around itself this craft is called wire wrapping.
Not only is it quite beautiful but it makes the rosaries sturdy and durable.
Alice von Hildebrand is a household name to many who know her from her countless EWTN appearances, her books, and her extensive articles and essays. What is little known is the story of her life, notably the thirty-seven years she spent at Hunter College in New York City.
There, despite systematic opposition she left a mark on a generation of students through her defense of truth with reason, wit, and love. By showing her students how truth fulfills the deepest longings of the heart,
she liberated countless students from the oppressive relativism of the day, enabling many of them to find their way to God.
Now, for the first time, discover the details of Alice von Hildebrand’s life as a “Happy Failure,” including:
· her thrilling escape from Europe that was nearly halted by a Nazi sub
· her early days in America and her dedication to education and cultivating wisdom
· her marriage to the great philosopher Dietrich von Hildebrand,
· her victories and defeats at Hunter where she combated a culture of relativism
· and much more…
Memoirs of a Happy Failure is a fascinating and essential glimpse into the life of one of contemporary Catholicism’s most compelling minds. It is the story of courage, faith, and the grace of God acting in the world.
The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis is a classic masterpiece of religious satire that entertains readers with its sly and ironic portrayal of human life and foibles from the vantage point of Screwtape, a highly placed assistant to “Our Father Below.” At once wildly comic, deadly serious, and strikingly original, C.S. Lewis’s The Screwtape Letters is the most engaging account of temptation—and triumph over it—ever written.
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“This is no lasting city, you know, for even the young have seen death. But if you complete your earthly mission successfully, you will be given a home with God forever.” There have been a few times when my children would have a friend who died young, my oldest son in particular. Each time it would be devistating. But these times gave us the opportunity to again talk about why we are on this earth, “God made me to show His goodness, and to make me happy with Him in heaven”. This, our Baltimore catechism emblazened in our minds and hearts, and it was the simple answer I would give him when in my son’s grief, he would ask “why”. To reiterate that basic truth underlines all that is or ever was, and why, and gives us peace in the midst of grief. It was an occasion to remind him that it is so important to be in a state of grace, to go to confession frequently, and to love God with all our heart, mind and soul, because we cannot know when Our Lord will call us from this earth. It also brought us to the point that we must pray for the one who died, and often. They may be one fervent Hail Mary away from leaving Purgatory and entering into heaven. We can assist them from having to suffer more, by our thoughtful prayers and sacrifices.
Death is…. Forever. Getting the youth ready for adulthood is quite a challenge, but then it really starts when they are born. Thank you.
Death is… Forever, everytime it happens. Adulthood prep starts shortly after a baby is born, and it’s quite a job. Thank you