“Finding simple ways to make the mundane of life beautiful and joyful.”
This is what Emilie Barnes talks about in this article. Also, about the beauty of the simplicity of life.
I learned these things quickly in my vocation. I came from a background where there was not an abundance of material goods. At times we were fortunate to have enough food. This had me primed to not expect perfection or abundance when we got married.
And then I dug into the books. These helped me to have a perspective of making what I had…beautiful.
We lived in a tiny home on 6 acres. It was a one-bedroom home that was built for a retired couple. We had 7 children in that home and lived there ten years.
I homeschooled in the living room area. I set up school desks and then pushed them aside after school.
We had parties. We had fun. It was hard to keep it clean but we did our best.
And I always had my altar set up in the corner with an older dresser that was covered with a tablecloth, Our Lady’s statue graced the middle. Smaller statues, flowers and candles surrounded the statues. I put doilies (found at thrift shops) or curtains over my used, rather ugly furniture to make them look pretty. We grew fresh flowers and bouquets would grace the middle of the table and our little altar.
My husband eventually tacked on two little bedrooms that were each as big as a matchbox. He made smaller bunkbeds for the kids. It worked.
The sun shone into that little home with the crooked floors. There was a beauty in the simplicity of it. My children have very fond memories of those years, and they did not want to move out of our little run-down home when the time came.
Remember…you can make a home wherever you are. Add your touches of beauty and warmth that show you are thinking of those around you. And that will help to lift your own heart in the mundane and daily tasks before you each day.
By Emilie Barnes, Keep It Simple for Busy Women: Inspiring Ideas to Reduce Stress and Enjoy Life More
An Eternal Rhythm
I’ve heard it said that life is five percent joy, five percent grief, and 90 percent maintenance. Are you nodding your head in agreement? Well, if that’s the case, we need to find simple ways to make the dailyness of our maintenance program shine with the beauty of God’s goodness and joy.
How is that possible? I believe it’s by finding simple ways to bring loveliness to even the most mundane task! It’s this act of making beauty out of something ordinary that brings joy to our spirits and to the people around us.
It may take an attitude adjustment to find delight in serving brunch on miscellaneous, imperfectly matched pottery and linens, but when you share the story of finding the plates at a garage sale, the cups at a local discount store, the tablecloth on a clearance table at J. C. Penney’s, and the napkins in the back of your linen closet, you communicate the message that life is process, and half the fun is getting there.
Share the spirit of creativity! Your inspiration will cause others to use their God-given creativity to instill a spirit of loveliness into their own lives and homes!
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Treasure Life
When life seems glum, or things aren’t quite going your way, try just keeping it simple-simply treasure life!
Not long ago, my daughter Jenny shared with me something about her growing up years that really meant a lot to her.
She said, “Mom, I always heard you and Dad say how blessed and thankful you were for where you were in life. But Mom, I know now that things weren’t always that great! Yet you’ve both never stopped talking about how good God is and how well God provides.
I’ve decided that from now on, I’m going to set a better example in my own home and with my children by saying more often just how blessed and thankful we are. Thanks, Mom, for showing me how to have more gratitude.”
What a joy to receive such words from my daughter. When we feel grateful, it affects our whole being. All the trivial issues seem to fall away
Do something today that reflects your love for your treasured life. Discover the joy of simply living life abundantly!
Simple Pleasures
*Think of someone who needs cheering, and do your part.
*Offer overnight babysitting for a young couple that needs a break.
*Invite a neighbor for tea and exchange a lifetime highlight.
Some Ideas to Make Your Days More Beautiful:
As a housewife, transforming mundane tasks into moments of beauty can bring joy, purpose, and peace to your daily life. Here’s a list of ideas to inspire you:
🌺Play Music or Pray Aloud: Put on uplifting music—classical, hymns, or something cheerful—while cooking, cleaning, or folding laundry. Alternatively, recite prayers or short saint quotes to infuse spirituality into the task.
🌼Add Scent: Light a candle, use essential oils, or simmer herbs like cinnamon and lavender on the stove while you work. A pleasant fragrance can elevate chores like dusting or sweeping.
🪻Beautify Your Space: Arrange a small vase of fresh flowers or greenery from your yard on the kitchen counter or dining table. Even simple tasks like wiping counters feel special with a touch of nature nearby.
🌺Dress with Intention: Wear an apron you love, a pretty skirt, or even a spritz of perfume. Feeling lovely while scrubbing dishes or vacuuming can shift your mindset.
🌼Create Rituals: Turn routine tasks into mini-celebrations. Brew a cup of tea before folding laundry, or say a quick prayer of gratitude before starting dinner prep.
🪻Involve Creativity: Plate meals with care—garnish with herbs or arrange food artfully, even for simple dishes. Turn mundane cooking into a small act of artistry.
🌺Offer It Up: Dedicate a task to someone you love or a prayer intention—like St. Thérèse of Lisieux’s “little way.” Scrubbing floors can become a gift of love.
🌼Mindful Presence: Focus on the sensory details—feel the warm water while washing dishes, notice the colors of the vegetables you’re chopping. Being present adds richness to the ordinary. It’s also good for the mental state ~ Keeping in the present moment.
🪻Decorate Seasonally: Reflect the liturgical calendar or seasons in your home—Advent wreaths, Lenten simplicity, or spring blossoms. It ties daily chores to a bigger story.
🌺Pause for Beauty: Step outside for a moment to breathe fresh air, watch the sky, or listen to birds between tasks. It’s a reset that makes returning to work feel refreshing.
🌼Use Lovely Tools: Invest in a pretty broom, a floral-patterned dishcloth, or a favorite wooden spoon. Tools that delight you make the work more enjoyable.
🪻Share the Moment: If you have kids or a spouse, invite them into tasks with a smile—sing together while tidying or tell a story while peeling potatoes.
These small acts weave beauty into the fabric of your day, making even the most repetitive chores feel meaningful.
Each morning is the dawn of a new day that God has given us. It is up to us how we receive it. And for a Catholic woman it is a choice that doesn’t just affect ourselves. No, the ripple effects of those first few minutes of the day will affect all the members of the household, each of their walks of life, the people they encounter, etc…
How about a little green for St. Patrick’s Day coming up?
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“A good Catholic man loves his wife not only in the first period of marriage, when she is young, beautiful, sprightly, vivacious and generally charming, and when their union still has the spice of novelty and freshness: but he will love her as much or even more as years wear on.”
—Fr. Fulgence Meyer, OFM
Published in the 1920s, this timeless book offers practical counsel and wisdom relevant for every Catholic married couple and those preparing for this great sacrament. Specifically, this book addresses how to form a truly Catholic home, the challenges and various sins that destroy marital love, and above all, how spousal love ought to flourish.
With simplicity and singleness of purpose, Plain Talks’ intimate and reverent style will give you frank, illuminating, and correct answers to the questions that perplex you. Those who read this book will become better spouses and parents.

Memoirs of a Happy Failure
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Happy Birthday Mrs. V!! I thank God that He gave us you! You have helped me so much by sharing on this blog and with your “Young Lady’s Maglet”. Thank you, and God bless you on your special day.
God bless you and thank you very much Mary! ❤️
I always wondered which day in March was your birthday, it’s not in Lent this year! 🥳😇 Happy birthday! 🎂
The list above is very good, I like the decorating per season and per holy season. Not big, except Christmas, but little things to remind as time goes by. You never know if you will get to do it again the next year……
Thank you!
A happy belated birthday Leane!🎼🎶🎶🎶🎶🎂🎁📚🎈🎈🎉God bless you!😇
Thank you Doris! 🥰
I thoroughly enjoyed this post, Leane. Your story reminds me of one my grandfather told me when I was a girl. He was a painter, and used to paint all sorts of buildings. On this occasion, he was painting the small cottages for the migrant workers one hot California summer’s day. An older Mexican lady gestured for him to come into her home for a rest and cold drink of water.
She had very little, but the home was spotless. The dirt floors were swept perfectly, and the table at which he was invited to sit as he enjoyed a welcome glass of cold water, had an old milk bottle, with a little bunch of wildflowers in it. She was very kind to him even though they did not speak one another’s language. It was an experience he never forgot, and neither have I, for I have tried to apply her example throughout my life.
No matter how little one has, we can always offer kindness and hospitality. Even with a dirt floors, we can inject beauty into our homes. Thank you for such a lovely reminder of what a true ‘home’ is all about.
Also, happy belated birthday to you. 😊
P.S I will always treasure the month of March. I was confirmed into the Catholic Church on the 9th.
God bless,
Christine
That was beautiful. 🤩 Thank you Christine! 🥰