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🌷🪻🌼Making Your Every~Day Life Beautiful

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“Finding simple ways to make the mundane of life beautiful and joyful.”

This is what Emilie Barnes talks about in this article. Also, about the beauty of the simplicity of life.

I learned these things quickly in my vocation. I came from a background where there was not an abundance of material goods. At times we were fortunate to have enough food. This had me primed to not expect perfection or abundance when we got married.

And then I dug into the books. These helped me to have a perspective of making what I had…beautiful.

We lived in a tiny home on 6 acres. It was a one-bedroom home that was built for a retired couple. We had 7 children in that home and lived there ten years.

I homeschooled in the living room area. I set up school desks and then pushed them aside after school.

We had parties. We had fun. It was hard to keep it clean but we did our best.

And I always had my altar set up in the corner with an older dresser that was covered with a tablecloth, Our Lady’s statue graced the middle. Smaller statues, flowers and candles surrounded the statues. I put doilies (found at thrift shops) or curtains over my used, rather ugly furniture to make them look pretty. We grew fresh flowers and bouquets would grace the middle of the table and our little altar.

My husband eventually tacked on two little bedrooms that were each as big as a matchbox. He made smaller bunkbeds for the kids. It worked.

The sun shone into that little home with the crooked floors. There was a beauty in the simplicity of it. My children have very fond memories of those years, and they did not want to move out of our little run-down home when the time came.

Remember…you can make a home wherever you are. Add your touches of beauty and warmth that show you are thinking of those around you. And that will help to lift your own heart in the mundane and daily tasks before you each day.

By Emilie Barnes, Keep It Simple for Busy Women: Inspiring Ideas to Reduce Stress and Enjoy Life More

An Eternal Rhythm

I’ve heard it said that life is five percent joy, five percent grief, and 90 percent maintenance. Are you nodding your head in agreement? Well, if that’s the case, we need to find simple ways to make the dailyness of our maintenance program shine with the beauty of God’s goodness and joy.

How is that possible? I believe it’s by finding simple ways to bring loveliness to even the most mundane task! It’s this act of making beauty out of something ordinary that brings joy to our spirits and to the people around us.

It may take an attitude adjustment to find delight in serving brunch on miscellaneous, imperfectly matched pottery and linens, but when you share the story of finding the plates at a garage sale, the cups at a local discount store, the tablecloth on a clearance table at J. C. Penney’s, and the napkins in the back of your linen closet, you communicate the message that life is process, and half the fun is getting there.

Share the spirit of creativity! Your inspiration will cause others to use their God-given creativity to instill a spirit of loveliness into their own lives and homes!

Simple Pleasures +;Garnish desserts with delectable, edible pansies. mBundle sprigs of lavender and tie with raffia. %Play the dictionary game or learn a new word everyday.

Treasure Life

When life seems glum, or things aren’t quite going your way, try just keeping it simple-simply treasure life!

Not long ago, my daughter Jenny shared with me something about her growing up years that really meant a lot to her.

She said, “Mom, I always heard you and Dad say how blessed and thankful you were for where you were in life. But Mom, I know now that things weren’t always that great! Yet you’ve both never stopped talking about how good God is and how well God provides.

I’ve decided that from now on, I’m going to set a better example in my own home and with my children by saying more often just how blessed and thankful we are. Thanks, Mom, for showing me how to have more gratitude.”

What a joy to receive such words from my daughter. When we feel grateful, it affects our whole being. All the trivial issues seem to fall away

Do something today that reflects your love for your treasured life. Discover the joy of simply living life abundantly!

Simple Pleasures

*Think of someone who needs cheering, and do your part.

*Offer overnight babysitting for a young couple that needs a break.

*Invite a neighbor for tea and exchange a lifetime highlight.

Some Ideas to Make Your Days More Beautiful:

As a housewife, transforming mundane tasks into moments of beauty can bring joy, purpose, and peace to your daily life. Here’s a list of ideas to inspire you:

🌺Play Music or Pray Aloud: Put on uplifting music—classical, hymns, or something cheerful—while cooking, cleaning, or folding laundry. Alternatively, recite prayers or short saint quotes to infuse spirituality into the task.

🌼Add Scent: Light a candle, use essential oils, or simmer herbs like cinnamon and lavender on the stove while you work. A pleasant fragrance can elevate chores like dusting or sweeping.

🪻Beautify Your Space: Arrange a small vase of fresh flowers or greenery from your yard on the kitchen counter or dining table. Even simple tasks like wiping counters feel special with a touch of nature nearby.

🌺Dress with Intention: Wear an apron you love, a pretty skirt, or even a spritz of perfume. Feeling lovely while scrubbing dishes or vacuuming can shift your mindset.

🌼Create Rituals: Turn routine tasks into mini-celebrations. Brew a cup of tea before folding laundry, or say a quick prayer of gratitude before starting dinner prep.

🪻Involve Creativity: Plate meals with care—garnish with herbs or arrange food artfully, even for simple dishes. Turn mundane cooking into a small act of artistry.

🌺Offer It Up: Dedicate a task to someone you love or a prayer intention—like St. Thérèse of Lisieux’s “little way.” Scrubbing floors can become a gift of love.

🌼Mindful Presence: Focus on the sensory details—feel the warm water while washing dishes, notice the colors of the vegetables you’re chopping. Being present adds richness to the ordinary. It’s also good for the mental state ~ Keeping in the present moment.

🪻Decorate Seasonally: Reflect the liturgical calendar or seasons in your home—Advent wreaths, Lenten simplicity, or spring blossoms. It ties daily chores to a bigger story.

🌺Pause for Beauty: Step outside for a moment to breathe fresh air, watch the sky, or listen to birds between tasks. It’s a reset that makes returning to work feel refreshing.

🌼Use Lovely Tools: Invest in a pretty broom, a floral-patterned dishcloth, or a favorite wooden spoon. Tools that delight you make the work more enjoyable.

🪻Share the Moment: If you have kids or a spouse, invite them into tasks with a smile—sing together while tidying or tell a story while peeling potatoes.

These small acts weave beauty into the fabric of your day, making even the most repetitive chores feel meaningful.

Each morning is the dawn of a new day that God has given us. It is up to us how we receive it. And for a Catholic woman it is a choice that doesn’t just affect ourselves. No, the ripple effects of those first few minutes of the day will affect all the members of the household, each of their walks of life, the people they encounter, etc…

How about a little green for St. Patrick’s Day coming up?

Available here.

Plain Talks on Marriage ~ Available here.

“A good Catholic man loves his wife not only in the first period of marriage, when she is young, beautiful, sprightly, vivacious and generally charming, and when their union still has the spice of novelty and freshness: but he will love her as much or even more as years wear on.”
—Fr. Fulgence Meyer, OFM

Published in the 1920s, this timeless book offers practical counsel and wisdom relevant for every Catholic married couple and those preparing for this great sacrament. Specifically, this book addresses how to form a truly Catholic home, the challenges and various sins that destroy marital love, and above all, how spousal love ought to flourish.

With simplicity and singleness of purpose, Plain Talks’ intimate and reverent style will give you frank, illuminating, and correct answers to the questions that perplex you. Those who read this book will become better spouses and parents.

Memoirs of a Happy Failure

Alice von Hildebrand is a household name to many who know her from her countless EWTN appearances, her  books, and her extensive articles and essays. What is little known is the story of her life, notably the thirty-seven years she spent at Hunter College in New York City.

There, despite systematic opposition she left  a mark on a generation of students through her defense of truth with reason, wit, and love. By showing her students how truth fulfills the deepest longings of the heart,
she liberated countless students from the oppressive relativism of the day, enabling many of them to find their way to God.

Now, for the first time, discover the details of Alice von Hildebrand’s life as a “Happy Failure,” including:

·         her thrilling escape from Europe that was nearly halted by a Nazi sub
·         her early days in America and her dedication to education and cultivating wisdom
·         her marriage to the great philosopher Dietrich von Hildebrand,
·         her victories and defeats at Hunter where she combated a culture of relativism
·         and much more…

Memoirs of a Happy Failure is a fascinating and essential glimpse into the life of one of contemporary Catholicism’s most compelling minds. It is the story of courage, faith, and the grace of God acting in the world.

 

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